Showing posts with label UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE


What is unconditional love?.............

It is known as affection without any limitations.  This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as tru, compete love or “mother’s” love.  Each area of expertise has a certain way of describing unconditional love, but most will agree that it is that type of love which has no bounds and is unchanging.  It is a concept comparable to true love, a term which is more frequently used to describe between lovers.  By contrast, unconditional love is frequently used to describe love between family members, comrades in arms and between others in highly committed relationships.

An example of this is a parent’s love for their child; no matter a test score, a life changing decision, an argument or a strong belief, the amount of love that remains between this bond is seen as unchanging and unconditional.
The four loves are
AFFECTION
FRIENDSHIP
ROMANCE
UNCONDTIONAL LOVE.

In phychology unconditional love would refer to a state of mind in which the individual has the goal of increasing the welfare of another despite any evidence of benefit for them self.

The term is also widely used in family and couples counseling manuals
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Saturday, July 14, 2012

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE................!!!!!!!!!

Why are we loving our mother.... because she is accepting us as it is ...... irrespective of our colour, height, weight, money, job etc etc......UNCONDITIONAL LOVE......


The same thing we should shower it to our partner.  This is the main secret.... nothing more than that..... is it so easy.......no writing is very easy..... but practically  it is very very difficult.....


What a baby got from his mom he/she expect the same thing from their opposite sex,  the same acceptance.....  If the baby is a girl she expect love like her mom and caring like her dad.


WHO ever  you may be....you are my darling,,,, you are my sweet heart.....etc......irrespective of  your look, education, height, weight, etc.etc... you are mine.... the TOTAL ACCEPTANCE..... this was needed by both sides.


COMMITMENTS .... start from the food to  your fullest happiness is my prime work, nothing else.... total commitments.


What ever you do.... I will appreciate you.... Though all the persons will do.... But I do not care.... you are mine ...TOTAL APPRECIATION


I am always with you...ABSOLUTE LOYALTY... Total world may be against you.... But I am with you... every time,  always......


TOTAL FREEDOM.... What ever it may be..... I will shower my fullest love on you..... 


 I am concerning on you..... If anything goes wrong... I may die for you. TOTAL CONCERN on the partner.



This is what needed from 14 years to 70 years.  If they happen to meet such a person, they will fall on them.  No one can apart them.  There children will live a healthy and happy life.  


But............. This is not happening means, they will seek another partner.... If that persons shows the above unconditional love means they will fall on their feet.  They will come out from their family and their children too............They will not care for the society, social status etc etc....  


Where is the problem...... The person should show unconditional love.... for that he no need to spend any money......only his mind to the welfare of their family......


WILL THEY................??????????????